TOP GUN LOVE: EXPERT ADVICE & COUNSELING FOR BETTER RELATIONSHIPS & SEX
The hunger for love, sex and connecting deeply to a partner are instinctive, universal drives. Unfortunately, the knowledge and skill of how to successfully create stable, joyful partnerships are not. These have to be learned. But how? You don’t learn them in school. Parents are often not the best role models and even if they are, you still make your own heartbreaking mistakes
Our Top Gun Love mission is to help you achieve the sizzling sex and lasting, loving relationships you yearn for. We are dedicated to giving you the information, tools and inspiration you need to overcome your problems, conflicts, and frustrations and to make your love life soar.
Why are we called Top Gun Love?
As a fighter pilot, Frank was motivated to be the best at what he did, a “top gun”. He never stopped learning new techniques and took every opportunity to practice. We use the “top gun” analogy because we don’t want you to just get by, or to be an okay lover or partner and have ordinary sex, if any, or a tolerable relationship. Man or woman, single or in relationship, we want to help you to be a skilled “top lover” and a “top mate.” We want you to have the juice and the joy in sex and relationships that being trained and knowing what you’re doing brings.
What you need to navigate a loving relationship is also very similar to what is required to fly a fighter plane. To be successful in either, you’d better intimately understand your mission, every inch of the equipment and how to fly through any weather condition–together.
So THAT’S Why They Do That! Men, Women And Their Hormones
The first and biggest section in any jet fighter manual is Descriptions and Operations, which gives the nitty-gritty details about every piece of equipment on the plane and how they interact. Pilots have to know this section backwards and forwards before flying. Likewise, there’s nothing more basic to male and female behavior than the sex hormones that produce human traits, drives and differences.
Our new book, So THAT’S Why They Do That! Men Women And Their Hormones teaches you how these hormones work, and gives you the understanding of why men and women think, feel, and act the way they do. How important is this knowledge? Extremely. It’s the ABC’s of any kind of relationship. Whether we’re counseling or coaching singles or couples, we’ve seen how not understanding the differences between males and females creates confusion, conflict and hard feelings. Often partners blame each other for behavior that is natural to their gender, including sexual drives and needs. Even gay couples have these kinds of issues because one partner is usually more masculine and the other, more feminine. Once our clients get it, singles have less drama and better partners and couples get back to the important business of being a team and loving each other.