Relationship Counselor & Coach
I’ve been doing personal, career and relationship counseling and coaching in Los Angeles for 33 years. I’m a big believer in happy endings and have been very successful in helping my clients achieve them.
The seeds of my way of thinking were planted in childhood. I joke that I started out being orthodox Jewish as a kid, then converted to being orthodox bohemian after attending the High School Music and Art in Manhattan. But the truth is that both influences have shaped how I look at life and the choices I make.
My early spiritual training taught to dig deep, question ideas and see if they passed the “truth test.” That’s led me to study and draw from many ancient and modern sources of wisdom, including Eastern and Western spiritual practices. I have trained rigorously in specific methods and techniques that get results – which is fortunate considering I’ve spent a lifetime learning these things.
From my arts training, I learnt how to apply the same basic creative principles to different art forms. As a result, I did comedy improvisation, wrote song lyrics (10 recorded) and screenplays, still paint and write in various formats. Becoming an artist also taught me that creativity meant being experimental, taking risks and having the courage to express your unique vision, whether on the canvas or in your life.
All this came together nicely with the sexual revolution of the 60’s. As a young woman, I endeavored to “make love, not war” and figure out by trial and error who I was sexually and what kind of relationship I wanted.
I’ve had one night stands, dated, enjoyed “friends with benefits” and had love affairs. I’ve had my ups and downs, laughter and tears, broken and healed hearts. Three relationships were profound, intimate, soul connecting – a passionate first love, a thirteen year marriage and a mature, tender love. I was at the bedside of my first love, along with his wife, the day he died. The other two are true, deep friends till this day.
By the time I met my beloved Frank in 2004, my lifetime self-tutorial included gender studies and training in Tantric Yoga. I had compiled the ultimate “what-I-want- in-a- man” list with my ultimate item: “a man who is brilliant at creating relationships.” People were skeptical, but Frank is that man. Goes to show, you get what you ask for, but you have to be wise enough to ask for the right thing.
Living with and loving Frank is truly a blessing and one that can be shared. Together, we’ve got 138 years of life experience and counting, and the commitment and training to help make your love, sex and relationship dreams come true.
Sex & Relationship Counselor & Coach
I am a veteran of the Vietnam War where I flew F-100s and a veteran of the relationship wars where I managed to get divorced three times. When I decided I didn’t want anymore wars I began to study everything I could find about love, sex, and relationship.
Although my formal degrees are in unrelated fields (Law, Engineering, and Business) I do know how to study and I found teachers from Europe, India and a Native American Shaman. I approached my study of love, sex, and relationship with the same dedication and discipline that it took to get three degrees and be a fighter pilot.
I loved the excitement of flying and after my stint as a fighter pilot I taught flying and aerobatics, winning the Arizona State Aerobatic championship and performing in air shows. I also raced sports cars in the U.S. and formula cars in Europe. I now compete on a winning yacht racing crew.
I completed the Science of Mind Practitioner and Ministerial Course with Terry Cole-Whittaker, and the Relationship Coaching Institute Singles and Couples Coaching course. I am licensed by The Relationship Coaching Institute.
I believe that love and sex are a spiritual practice and that relationships, especially love relationships are the foundation of everything we do. To have a consistent sustainable sexual relationship requires skills and abilities for which many of us received very little if any training. Contrary to popular opinion, great sex does not come instinctively or just happen because we are in love. It takes training and practice in both sex and relationship to bring us the ecstatic life we want.
I now have the relationship of my dreams and am able to practice what I preach with Judith.